{"id":21229,"date":"2022-11-14T10:43:14","date_gmt":"2022-11-14T17:43:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/?p=21229"},"modified":"2023-07-12T14:21:34","modified_gmt":"2023-07-12T14:21:34","slug":"how-to-build-rapport-with-esl-students","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/how-to-build-rapport-with-esl-students\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Build Rapport With ESL Students: 8 Strategies for Fostering Good Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div>\n<p>Before you put those PowerPoint slides onscreen or break out the worksheets in your next English class, have you checked how your students feel about taking the day&#8217;s lesson? There are numerous ways to connect with students, be it high-fives or special greetings. Even so, finding ways to make students feel comfortable and engaged in lesson content can be challenging. Here, we break down some fail-safe ways for how to build rapport with ESL students!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>If you\u2019re new to teaching, you\u2019ll want to get initial training and qualification with a <a href=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/courses\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TEFL certificate<\/a>. You can explore our <a href=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/online-tefl-certification\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">online TEFL courses<\/a> to get started today.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What does rapport in ESL\/EFL education mean?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Rapport refers to a comfortable and harmonious relationship between the teacher and the students. It is the result of being able to &#8220;click&#8221; with your students \u2013 you connect, interact, and understand each other in a positive way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rapport-building, however, is not just about finding common interests and values. It goes as far as creating trust and respect between you and your students, no matter how big your age gap or where you&#8217;re from.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter wp-image-9033 size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Student-Motivation-Blog-Image-1.jpg\" alt=\"Online English student on a laptop\" class=\"wp-image-9033\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Student-Motivation-Blog-Image-1.jpg 560w, https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Student-Motivation-Blog-Image-1-480x270.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 560px, 100vw\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>A student of the author, Krzl, an online English teacher in Chile <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why is it important to build relationships with English students?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>A good rapport with ESL students is the key to creating a positive and supportive online or physical classroom environment. In effect, the learning process is enhanced because:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Students feel more comfortable in class<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Most first-time ESL students have very little idea of what to expect from their class or teacher. They also often feel anxious and shy about speaking in English for fear of sounding silly or being misunderstood. Nevertheless, it\u2019s possible to reduce these jitters if you can quickly connect with your students.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Learners become more motivated to participate<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Have you ever admired an educator who didn&#8217;t seem to have problems making students talk or take part in any activity, and who could even make them laugh? This kind of teacher has a friendly rapport with his or her students. The more connected you are with your ESL students, the more they will <a href=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/collaborative-learning-strategies\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">respond and participate in class<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Students keep coming back for more<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>While students may not tell you, \u201cYou\u2019re the best teacher ever!\u201d you\u2019ll know that they have a good rapport with you when they regularly show up and make an effort to be in your class, despite their busy schedules.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How do you build rapport with your ESL students?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Now that we know that it&#8217;s important to build rapport in the English language classroom to support students in becoming more comfortable, confident learners who are enthusiastic about attending class, let&#8217;s look at ways you can encourage these strong relationships with students in a variety of ESL settings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignnone is-resized wp-image-9652\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/TEO-Mari-Fish-1-975x1024.jpg\" alt=\"online English teacher\" class=\"wp-image-9652\" width=\"406\" height=\"425\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>Mari, an online English teacher<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Smile and be energetic!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Receiving your students with a cheerful welcome instantly creates a positive learning environment. As a teacher, your vibe easily channels to your learners, so make sure that you&#8217;re enthusiastic and motivating!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Incorporate fun icebreakers and other activities.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When it comes down to how to build rapport with ESL students, nothing knocks out a nervous feeling and awkward silence in class better than a good ESL icebreaker! It doesn\u2019t have to be elaborate \u2013 it could be as simple as a &#8220;Two Truths and a Lie&#8221; activity. (Find this and other games here: <a href=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/esl-icebreakers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">10 Easy ESL Icebreakers<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Additionally, students may show up to class tired or anxious, so it\u2019s always a good idea to perk them up with a fun game. If you\u2019re teaching a group class, make it more entertaining through competitive games. Yes, your ESL student\u2019s learning is important, but don\u2019t forget to prioritize fun in class too!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/teaching-one-on-one-vs-group-online-english-classes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Learn more about teaching group vs. individual online English classes.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Learn about your learners.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether it\u2019s about their favorite pop group or their last beach trip, don\u2019t be afraid to ask questions about your students&#8217; lives outside the classroom to find out more about them. Be genuinely curious about their interests and activities. Who knows, you might spark a fun conversation about your shared love for surfing or travel!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, pay attention to important information that you can ask them about in future lessons, like birthdays or new additions to the family. Since these details can easily slip your mind, it\u2019s helpful to write them down during or after your class.<\/p>\n\n\n<div style=\"padding-left: 1.2em; text-align: left; --ub-list-item-icon-top: 3px;; --ub-list-item-icon-size: 1em; --ub-list-item-background-image: url('data:image\/svg+xml;utf8,&lt;svg xmlns=&quot;http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg&quot; viewBox=&quot;0 0 384 512&quot;&gt;&lt;path fill=&quot;%23fcb900&quot; d=&quot;M256 384c9.6-31.9 29.5-59.1 49.2-86.2l0 0c5.2-7.1 10.4-14.2 15.4-21.4c19.8-28.5 31.4-63 31.4-100.3C352 78.8 273.2 0 176 0S0 78.8 0 176c0 37.3 11.6 71.9 31.4 100.3c5 7.2 10.2 14.3 15.4 21.4l0 0C66.5 324.9 86.4 352.1 96 384H256zM176 512c44.2 0 80-35.8 80-80V416H96v16c0 44.2 35.8 80 80 80zM96 176c0 8.8-7.2 16-16 16s-16-7.2-16-16c0-61.9 50.1-112 112-112c8.8 0 16 7.2 16 16s-7.2 16-16 16c-44.2 0-80 35.8-80 80z&quot;&gt;&lt;\/path&gt;&lt;\/svg&gt;'); --ub-list-item-fa-li-top: 3px; \" class=\"wp-block-ub-styled-list ub_styled_list_sublist\" id=\"ub_styled_list-60829645-a9ae-4e56-a078-686035f5ffb3\"><ul class=\"fa-ul\"><li><em><strong>Pro Tip:<\/strong><\/em> Instead of simply chatting with your student, you can also learn more about him or her through engaging <a href=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/esl-games-teaching-online\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">get-to-know-you activities<\/a> like &#8220;20 Questions&#8221; or \u201cFind Someone Who.\u201d<\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Let your students get to know you back.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Just as you want to hear about your students\u2019 lives, they similarly would love to know about the music you listen to or what it&#8217;s like where you live or grew up. Share your story with them, show some photos of your family, or play a couple of songs that you like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large wp-image-9672 size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/timeline-article-feat-image-500x281.jpg\" alt=\"online English teacher in Chile\" class=\"wp-image-21227\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/timeline-article-feat-image-500x281.jpg 500w, https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/timeline-article-feat-image-480x270.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 500px, 100vw\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>Brenda is an online teacher in Chile and a surfer.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Let your personality shine through, too! Don\u2019t be shy about making jokes in class, laughing, or even being goofy in front of students. This way, they can see you as a real human being and not just someone teaching them a language.<\/p>\n\n\n<div style=\"padding-left: 1.2em; text-align: left; --ub-list-item-icon-top: 3px;; --ub-list-item-icon-size: 1em; --ub-list-item-background-image: url('data:image\/svg+xml;utf8,&lt;svg xmlns=&quot;http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg&quot; viewBox=&quot;0 0 384 512&quot;&gt;&lt;path fill=&quot;%23fcb900&quot; d=&quot;M256 384c9.6-31.9 29.5-59.1 49.2-86.2l0 0c5.2-7.1 10.4-14.2 15.4-21.4c19.8-28.5 31.4-63 31.4-100.3C352 78.8 273.2 0 176 0S0 78.8 0 176c0 37.3 11.6 71.9 31.4 100.3c5 7.2 10.2 14.3 15.4 21.4l0 0C66.5 324.9 86.4 352.1 96 384H256zM176 512c44.2 0 80-35.8 80-80V416H96v16c0 44.2 35.8 80 80 80zM96 176c0 8.8-7.2 16-16 16s-16-7.2-16-16c0-61.9 50.1-112 112-112c8.8 0 16 7.2 16 16s-7.2 16-16 16c-44.2 0-80 35.8-80 80z&quot;&gt;&lt;\/path&gt;&lt;\/svg&gt;'); --ub-list-item-fa-li-top: 3px; \" class=\"wp-block-ub-styled-list ub_styled_list_sublist\" id=\"ub_styled_list-fceba1ac-ba9f-4546-949d-c792f412f455\"><ul class=\"fa-ul\"><li><em><strong>Pro Tip:<\/strong><\/em> Let your students know more about your life through guessing games! For example, you can show them photos from your past vacations and make them guess where you went or who you were with!<\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Praise your students often.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s not uncommon for language learners&#8217; confidence to drop over the slightest mistakes, like in pronunciation or vocabulary usage, but you can easily boost their confidence during the class through specific, positive feedback. Compliment them for their achievements in class, whether they\u2019re as small as saying a word correctly or as big as being an expert in a difficult grammar tense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Show empathy.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019ve noticed that your learners seem to have had a hard day or are distracted by something, take a minute to ask them how they feel. Your students will appreciate it, even if you just listen and show concern. Connecting on a personal level will go a long way to building rapport with ESL students.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Tailor your lessons.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether you&#8217;ve known your students for a while or are still getting to know them, you can <a href=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/how-to-personalize-your-english-lessons\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">personalize the class content<\/a> according to their interests and personalities. For example, if your student is into winter sports, why not show him some of the best ski resorts around the world? Or, maybe you remember your other student\u2019s upcoming trip to Asia \u2013 why not create a lesson around the best things to do there? You can also look for places within any lesson you&#8217;re teaching where you can segue into a topic or an activity that could be interesting for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>In this video, from <a href=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/courses\/specialized\/teaching-english-online\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Bridge&#8217;s Specialized Certification in Teaching English Online course<\/a>, you can check out some sample questions you can ask new students to get to know them better:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"TEFL LIKE A PRO: Sample Interview with Student. Teaching English Online.\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/fDue5n2XUSU?feature=oembed\"  allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. <strong>Help students outside of the classroom<\/strong>.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t limit your teaching abilities to the class hours you\u2019ve chosen. A student may suddenly have doubts about a presentation in English that she&#8217;s about to give to her colleagues at work, or another may struggle with writing a corporate email, for instance. Build rapport when teaching ESL students by letting them know that they can reach out to you if they ever need help with any English-related tasks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It may require patience, some effort, and a willingness to be a lifelong learner to build rapport with your ESL students, but the reward of seeing your students happy and engaged will give you the best feeling any teacher could have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/bridge.edu\/tefl\/blog\/keep-online-students-motivated-teaching-esl\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Learn tips and strategies for keeping your students motivated when teaching English!<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Before you put those PowerPoint slides onscreen or break out the worksheets in your next English class, have you checked how your students feel about taking the day&#8217;s lesson? 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